Sunday, November 30, 2008

How 'bout them Ducks!

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Yesterday's civil war game between Oregon State and University of Oregon was one for the record books! Although the defensive strategies dominated the game, there was plenty of.......oh, who am I kidding. I didn't watch a second of it.

Actually, I don't watch football at all, or basketball, or any other team sport. I don't follow any teams, and I literally cannot name (I tried) a single football player for any college or professional team.

I keep expecting the guy police to show up at the door, kick me in the crotch, and take away my guy card.

The whole following of sports teams with anything other than a passing interest just seems so tedious. I realize I am in the smallest of minorities with this opinion. Clearly allegiance and excitement for your local team is a passion world-wide (soccer, rugby etc...), so I'm sure the "problem" is more mine than anything. I also realize that probably the more you follow, the more fun it gets.

This is a huge (relatively) problem on those occasions where I am left alone to make conversation with a bunch of guys (especially in social circles where I maybe don't know them as well). It is simply expected that I can speak with some degree of knowledge on the week's sporting events. I cannot. I mean, this is what guys do! They talk about sports. It's not the kind of thing that is too easy to fake, either. If the conversation gets far enough for me to be obliged to point out that I really don't follow, AT ALL, what's happening, I kind of get these looks of incredulity - Dude, seriously?

I'd like to point out here (protests too much?) that this does not make me a wuss. It's not like I don't know anything about, or cannot play these sports, I just do not choose to follow them. I played high school and Division III college football, I know plenty about the game . Sometimes I think it's because I spent so many hours in college on the practice field, in the drafty clubhouse watching hours of scouting films, in the bus on Saturdays driving to and from games, that I wore out all my tolerance for the sport. Maybe.

I know Kate doesn't mind. I'm not taking hours every week to watch football on TV (like I have that kind of time or concentration anyway). I like the fact that my mood for the week isn't set by how my team did that weekend, and that I can get out and do things during times when instead I would in front of a TV or at a game. And (I'll probably get in trouble for this), the whole die-hard team allegiance - with flags waving on your car or dressing head to toe in team colors, seems kind of , how shall I put this, conformingly misdirected anyway.

Ok, this is plenty on the subject. I need to wrap up this blog so I can go spend hours on the tree-climbing discussion boards, read my triathlon magazines, and re-vamp my training schedule.
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Friday, November 28, 2008

Major Robert D. Lindenau

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Every now and then in the incredibly large stream of information that passes by these days, something hits a bit too close to home and causes me to pause and reflect a little deeper.

On October 20th, Major Robert D. Lindenau was killed in Afganistan by a rocket propelled grenade. He was 39. He lived in the Northwest, and was an amateur triathlete who tried to keep up his training in the harsh environment where he was stationed. He left behind a wife and four children, ages 12, 10, 8, and 6.

In a situation like this: a guy my age, from the Northwest, who shared the same interests as me and had a family with four kids the same age as mine, it's impossible to just pass this by as another loss of a brave soldier. I can imagine a little too closely what it might be like for his kids to grow up without a dad, for his wife to loose a husband that young, how hard and tragic and lonely this must all be. And while we all value the sacrifice of the men and women in our military, I'm not sure that we really CAN fully appreciate the sacrifice when it is someone else's child, dad, husband (mother, sister, daughter) who pays the price.

Major Lindenau came to my attention today in an article in the most recent Triathlon Magazine, detailing his extensive work with Project Active. Project Active is an organization whose mission statement is:

A global mission with a commitment to diffuse world tensions through sport-related education, equipment, mentoring and encouragement. Project Active is dedicated to planting the peace-inspring seed of ahtletics in the heart of the Human Spirit, in areas of the world where it is needed most.

There is a link on Project Active's web site (upper right) where one can contribute to help his family. The donation amounts that follow are all dollar amounts containing only "8". I do not know of the significance of that, and had not actually gone to the donation page until just now. I mention this only because in my own life, the number 8 has always been "my" number, my favorite. It just seemed a little too coincidental to not mention it.

May Peace find its way to the Lindenau family.
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Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thanksgiving 2008

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I know it's cliche, but that doesn't make it any less sincere. I am thankful for:

  • A faith which has at its core the message that we are all precious, loved, and accepted by our Creator.
  • A mother and father in-law who did such an amazing job bringing up three girls, and who continue to gift us through their faith, love of teaching and music, service to their community, and e-mail updates and kind words regularly sent from Ohio.
  • My own parents and the extraordinary devotion and support they give to our family, and every life they touch.
  • A wife and best friend beyond compare
  • My brother and his incredible family
  • Extended family across the country and their unique situations
  • A loud, crazy household filled to the brim with personality, creativity, life and love.
  • Healthy minds and bodies
  • Living in a place abundant with natural beauty
  • An occupation which, while exhausting at times, allows me to serve others
  • Some measure of financial security
  • Tall trees
  • Caffeine
  • The Simpsons
  • A community pool
  • The philodendron jungle hanging from my office ceiling
  • Electronic toys (iPod, iPhone, Wii, GPS)
  • Piano, cello, guitar, baritone, recorder and trumpet music ringing through the house
  • The lack of mosquitoes in McMinnville
  • Going for a run and looking upon a 10,000 foot, snow covered volcano in the distance
  • Tide pools
  • The smell of turkey cooking as I write this
  • The skills, dedication, and personalities of my co-workers (all of them)
  • Hope: that despite so much bad news and suffering by so many, we are still a nation that hopes and expects better days ahead
  • The Daily Show
  • Audible.com
  • Hard work
  • Cheerios and Splenda
  • The 2 pages of comics in the Oregonian
  • Netflix
  • The way Kate can laugh uncontrollably for 10 minutes straight
  • Digital photography
  • The internet
  • YCAP, Habitat for Humanity, St. Barnabas' Soup Kitchen, the Community Compassion Fund and the Cold Weather Shelter
  • 11 mm rope and 30 different knots
  • Long, detailed descriptions of Nick or Ben's Lego creations
  • Despair.com, and satire in general
  • The regularity that we can have six people at the table for dinner, sharing stories of our day
  • A thousand other things.............
Happy Thanksgiving!
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Saturday, November 22, 2008

Facebook



I haven't posted for some time. This has been in part because of a lack of interesting things to say (to be made abundantly clear as you read), because I've been very very busy with work and other obligations, and finally (and the point of the title) because I've been hanging out on Facebook during whatever free time I do have at the computer.

I'm the type of person that has a lot of acquaintances, but no real friends. I don't mean that nobody likes me, just that I don't have a select group of people with whom I regularly hang out, communicate, or interact. This can be much to Kate's consternation, as she has plenty of girl friends to do stuff with, but if I want to go out and do something, it's always Kate that's on the hook.

I don't view my lack of friends as a huge drawback. A lot of my free-time activities (running, tree-climbing, other outdoor stuff) are very individualistic, and don't lend themselves well to the type of friend activity like going to a sporting event or concert would. Also, my leisure activities are a little less universally appreciated, and to participate with another in any practical way requires the same level of skill (e.g. I can't keep up on a run with someone who does 3:15 marathons, and it's hard for someone who doesn't also "know the ropes" to have fun climbing with me), so that's a further hindrance. Finally, while I am overall extroverted, my job being what it is, dealing with interacting with people, usually on a somewhat intense level, for 8-10 hours a day often means that on my down time, I just want to retreat into myself for a while.

So, for all those reasons and others, I am happy to go through life with a wife who's also a best friend, loving family around me, people I enjoy both in my work and extended social circles, but with really no regular "friends" otherwise. Still, it seems that something is missing not having those closer friends to regularly share things with.

That is why (to finally get around to the point of the post), I have really enjoyed Facebook. It's friendship with parameters that are perfect for me. I have re-established communication with friends from Jr. High, High School, College, as well as other avenues. Within this little "social networking tool" we can share things, communicate, and interact in a way that shows others that I'm interested in them and enjoy sharing things with them, and visa versa. But, it can be done on all of our own time, which works really well for me.

Point is, I've done more Facebook time because I've discovered I like having friends - particularly in the manner Facebook allows: checking in anytime, sharing things via various technologies, written expressions.

I don't want to overdue the facebook thing, so I'll stop there. But I think it's part of the reason I've not updated for a while.

I'm throwing in at the end a YouTube clip I really like. Facebook "friends" will have seen this video link from my "profile", but I find it funny and actually thoughtful enough (be thankful and amazed at what's around you) that I re-posted it here.


Thursday, November 13, 2008

Despair

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Ha! This is courtesy of Despair.com. I feel this way about my blog sometimes.

For more fun, read through their collection of demotivators HERE.

I've been spending a little too much time on Facebook lately, so the blog has gotten a bit sparse.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Passive Aggressive


So I was sitting in my office, typing and looking out over the parking lot when my 2:00 appointment drives up. This patient gets out of the car and stands next to it for the next 5 minutes, finishing up their cigarette. This patient then throws the butt on the ground, and comes in for their appointment. I went out to the parking lot and retrieved the butt (wearing a glove) and placed it in a clear urine container. At first I thought about discharging this patient outright (basically, we can drop anyone for any reason, it's an opt-out agreement for either party). Then I thought about confronting them with the cigarette butt while they were in the room. Finally, I placed the container in the bottom of a bag of samples I gave them with a written note: "Don't trash our parking lot, please".

So, in the end, I guess I was a bit (a lot) passive aggressive. Still, I think I got my point across.

Two political end notes:
  • I thought McCain's concession speech was impressive. He was gracious, eloquent, and reasserted himself as the true hero and lifetime public servant that he is. In a different election, with a different tone and a different running mate, I'd have been proud to cast a vote for him.
  • Obama is bringing some technological upgrades to the White House, including change.gov, which describes the transitional plans and solicits the advice of American citizens on what they want (and don't want) from their government. But one of the most refreshing things is a link to the Presidential Transitional Resources page, which gives the graphic of the "organizational chart" of the U.S.A. The Executive Branch is clearly shown (as are the other two branches) under the Constitution. I'm encouraged to see that they (unlike the current occupant) know their place.


Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Have a beer

Ok, things have been a little heavy lately...so let's all relax and have a beer. (I love this commercial)

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Hope Prevails

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HOPE PREVAILS

I’m glad to have been a part of this great nation on this day. There are all sorts of emotions swirling around in my head and heart, but I don’t think now is the time to dissect them or to elaborate. I’m content to watch the coming together of so many parts of this country, and see the joy in the supporters who worked so long and so hard to make this night a reality.

I’m glad my children could share this night with us, also. I think the world they inherit became a little bit brighter tonight.

That is basically what I wanted to say.



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I had previously typed out a list of the major reasons I voted for Obama. This was in part to document what I was thinking as I headed into this historic election, and in part to reassure others that my decisions were not based on “Obamamania” or an unrealistic idea of the issues. I’ve listed the major categories below. It’s politics and religion, so don’t read if you are bothered by opinions that may be different than yours.

THE WAR: Prior to the start of the war, the leaders of all the major Christian denominations, as well as the Jewish ones, urged in no uncertain terms that Bush give other avenues a chance to resolve the conflict, before launching a war. To be frank, the war in Iraq has me very angry. It was waged for reasons that were at best poorly investigated and at worst outright lies. It has cost our country billions of dollars and weakened us, not protected us. It has funneled countless millions into the pockets of defense corporation CEO’s, while the real heroes, the soldiers, pay the costs (as well as their families and their communities). Billions have disappeared in Iraq, yet soldiers here lose their homes, or cannot get adequate health care. That is wrong. This war has resulted in the pain and suffering of millions of Iraqi people, and the deaths of hundreds of thousands of innocents. I am spiritually and viscerally repulsed by the atrocities visited on our people and the world’s people for this pre-emptive conflict. If for no other reason, I supported Obama because he stood against this war, even when it was politically risky to do so. I want a president who feels, like Eisenhower, that “together, we must learn how to compose difference, not with arms, but with intellect and decent purpose”. McCain, as a soldier, seemed to understand this prior to the presidential race. I respected McCain’s stance against torture. But he had either lost his convictions or, worse, ignored them in the run for the presidency. I say this because of McCain’s equating ending the war with “surrender” or “failure”, his unwillingness to dissent with the Bush Administration on the protection of torture policies, and his continued support of the Iraqi conflict. I want my children to grow up in a world as free from war as possible, and Obama is more committed to that reality.

FAITH AND MORALS: This is the most important aspect of my decision, but it’s also the hardest to define one candidate to the other. I have seen Obama talk deeply about his faith, how he wrestles with spiritual questions, and the imperfections and distorted views of the people he previously looked to for spiritual growth. In his honoring of his marriage vows, in his working with the poor and the disadvantaged, in his understanding about what the government can and can’t do to change the hearts of people, Obama models much more closely what I believe to be Christian qualities than McCain does. I was particularly frustrated with the way McCain chose to align himself with the exclusionary and divisive fundamentalist evangelicals when it became politically expedient to do so. The intolerance of others and the condemnation of gays and lesbians these political allies preach is directly hurtful to committed Christians I know both as friends and as family. Those who would deny others a place at God’s table because of who they choose to love have placed more value on archaic Leviticus law than on the teachings and example of Christ. On the abortion question: I know several Christians who could not support Obama because of his stance on abortion. I personally feel that abortion represents in many ways an ultimate failure in the respect and the value of life. But, for reasons that are too complex (but scripturaly considered) to go into here, I do not equate spiritual life as beginning with conception. I also know that attempts to impose government regulations upon these very personal and often tragic circumstances have not been shown to improve, and will often worsen the very societal problem they are trying to prevent. One’s view on abortion cannot be the only measure of one’s faith. I find it incomprehensible that the same people who denounce Obama because of his abortion stance turn a seeming blind eye to other significant Christian concerns such as war, torture, the death penalty, racism, treatment of the poor and outcast, poverty, blasphemy, idol worship (money), care of God’s creation and a host of others. We don’t worship a “single issue” God, and the root causes of abortion will not be changed by supreme court rulings. Ultimately, in the pandering to the religious right, I see the McCain / Palin team as more like the Pharisee loudly praying in the church where all can see, while Obama seems to me (this is only my opinion) more like the one who wrestles with his faith, and keeps it personal and quiet. And yes, I know that one was a tax collector, I’m not going there.

STATESMANSHIP: David McCullough is a biographer of American history. He has written, among other things, John Adams, The Course of Human Events, and 1776. The latter I recently listened to. It is an amazing tale of the first years of the American Revolution, and the men (only men at this point in our nation’s history) who were forging this nation. We have this rich history because these men were, literally, men of letters. They were thoughtful and elegant in their words, and their writings are full of passion and philosophy. These men, these founding fathers were liberally educated. They were scholars. Many had spent time in other countries, other cultures. They were, in a word, elite. Obama has been criticized for having a world-view, for living in different cultures. Obama has been criticized for being too verbally and prosaically elegant (he actually wrote his own books in their entirety, without “ghost writers” (which his opponent did not)). I see in these traits a portion of the solid intellect of Washington, Adams, Monroe, Franklin and the other statesman who founded this amazing country. After 8 years of a President who seemed to communicate in short, mixed-up bursts of words, I think the American people are hungry to finally have a President who can put forth his ideas in the measured, intelligent, and ultimately beautiful way our founding fathers did.

PRINCIPLES: I will acknowledge straight off that Obama’s decision to not take public funding did show a betrayal of a previous promise. While not excusing that, I see this more as a politically expedient necessity, and separate from a shift in promises of a moral nature. He does deserve reproach for that reneging on his word, but I take far less offense with that than I do with McCain’s mud-slinging politicking, betrayal of his previous stance on torture, and his association with the right-wing evangelicals (Dobson, Faldwell’s University) who preach division and intolerance. In both the primaries and the general election, I did not ever see (feel free to correct me if I’m wrong) Obama question McCain’s character or integrity. Policies, yes. Character, no. This is not true of McCain/Palin. The mean-spirited attempts to link Obama to Reverand Wright, or Ayers, were character attacks pure and simple. The official campaign arguably did not actively encourage darker rhetoric (racist ideas, or Muslim or terrorist associations), but they certainly created an environment that supported it, and only denounced it when directly confronted with it. Obama always showed respect and courtesy when discussing his opponents, his opponents did not. I understand there are supporters on each side who strayed significantly into the fray of disrespect and cruelty, but I am speaking only of official campaign actions.

SOCIETY: I feel blessed living in this country. I have been given much, and I expect to give much in return. I expect to pay my fair share. And please note: paying my fair share is not “Spreading the wealth around”. I’m not a fan of taxes, but I realize that they build our roads, fund our services, help to support the disabled and the weak, allow for public education, and protect the natural resources of this country. I would have paid over $2,000 less in personal taxes under McCain, to say nothing of the tax reduction for my business. My social security withdrawals stop each July, when I reach the income cap. I don’t consider either of those things fair when so many struggle in this economy. Why should I pay proportionally less because I make more? We have so many social needs in this country, from health care to housing help to funding for mental illness, to a thousand other things. We are all improved when the least of us is supported. This is not a socialist stance, this is a patriotic one. I don’t begrudge anyone what they’ve earned, I just think everyone needs to pay their fair share, and we need to give an extra measure to those who otherwise have nothing. These are the values I see reflected in Obama’s agendas and programs. In McCain’s policies I saw further protections for the wealthiest 10% (which includes me), further erosion of our social services, and a further widening of the gap between the rich and the poor.

RACE: I did not vote for Obama because he is black, but because of the other reasons listed above. That being said, it is time for a black president. The fact that a Christian college not 15 miles from here has had to deal with a lynching effigy hung from a campus tree reminds me that there is an undercurrent of racism throughout this country, not just in the Dixie states. Listening to some of the blatant racist remarks being leveled against Obama has made me ashamed of the attitudes of both the people making the statements, and the ones who keep silent and do not confront those attitudes. I do not expect a black president to end racism in this country, but I do expect that he will show that this country can continue to make progress in healing the wounds of slavery and the ongoing cancer of bigotry. I am thankful that we now have proof, not just hope, that a child of any color can one day grow up to be president.

I am excited about the future of our country. It’s been a good day.

11/04/08

Monday, November 3, 2008

Hope or Fear....

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Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.
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